…and yes, once you know how to do it, you can even predict the theme of each individual year.
If horoscopes feel a little too broad for your liking, numerology might be the missing piece. Unlike astrology, which is based on planetary movement, numerology works directly with your date of birth, making it deeply personal and surprisingly specific.
Using just a few numbers, numerology can highlight the dominant energy shaping your major life chapters – your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond. Think of these as gateway decades, each carrying its own lessons, opportunities, and focus.
To understand how this works, we spoke to numerology expert Inbaal Honigman, who has over two decades of experience working with numerology, tarot, and spiritual guidance.
Why Numerology Works so Well
According to Inbaal, numerology is built on rhythm and progression.
“Life moves in patterns,” she explains. “Just as day follows night, numbers follow one another in a logical sequence. Numerology reflects that natural flow.”
This is why numerology often feels uncannily accurate. It doesn’t predict random events, instead, it highlights what kind of energy you’re moving through and how you’re meant to work with it.
How to Calculate the Energy of Your Decade
Start by choosing the decade you want to explore – for example, your 40s.
1. Write down the date of your birthday at the age you’ll be turning 40.
Example: If you were born on 17th December1986, and you’ll be turning 40 on 17/12/2026
2. Add every number together from that date together
1 + 7 + 1 + 2 + 2 + 0 + 2 + 5 = 20
3. Reduce it to a single digit
2 + 0 = 2
That final number reveals the dominant energy of that decade.
What Each Number Means for Your Life Chapter
1. New Beginnings
A decade of fresh starts and bold choices. If change hasn’t arrived yet, this is your sign to initiate it.
2. Relationships & Connection
Love, partnership, and emotional balance take centre stage. Collaboration thrives here.
3. Creativity & Expression
A playful, expressive phase. Art, design, performance, and self-expression flourish.
4. Stability & Foundations
This decade focuses on building something lasting; career, finances, or long-term security.
5. Communication & Growth
You’ll learn to speak your truth. Conversations, teaching, writing, and self-advocacy are key.
6. Protection & Responsibility
Family, care, and future planning come into focus. This is about nurturing what matters most.
7. Spiritual Exploration
A deeply introspective phase. Ideal for spiritual study, retreats, and inner development.
8. Power & Abundance
Confidence, influence, and material comfort increase. A strong decade for leadership and legacy.
9. Wisdom & Sharing
Your lived experience becomes valuable to others. Teaching, mentoring, and storytelling thrive.
Why You’re Not Stuck with One Energy for 10 Years
Here’s the reassuring part: each decade contains every number within it.
For example, if your 40s are a “4” decade (stability), each year still carries its own mini-theme:
- Age 41 → 4 + 1 = 5 (communication)
- Age 42 → 4 + 2 = 6 (care)
- Age 43 → 4 + 3 = 7 (spiritual growth)
So, progress happens in layers, not in straight lines.
What If You Don’t Feel Aligned with Your Current Number?
“If your lived experience doesn’t match your numerology,” Inbaal says, “you may be carrying unresolved energy from a previous cycle.”
The solution isn’t panic, it’s awareness.
Look back at earlier years and notice what might still be unfinished. Then take intentional action that matches your current number.
For example:
- In a 6 year? Volunteer, nurture, support others.
- In a 2 year? Prioritise connection and partnership.
- In a 4 year? Create structure instead of resisting it.
Alignment returns when action meets energy.
The Big Takeaway
Numerology doesn’t tell you what will happen. It shows you how to move through what’s happening with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Once you know your numbers, you stop fighting the current and start flowing with it.
If you’d like more personalised readings, you can get in touch with Inbaal on her website or via her Instagram account.
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